Milo's mom's birthday was yesterday and oops, I thought it was TODAY.
Sorry Mo. I wanted to pay tribute to her today and share a few things about this awesome woman. Mary,
AKA THE MO as her family coins her, entered my life 21 years ago when I started dating her son. If I had to describe our relationship at that time, I would have to be honest and say we were polar opposites. I loved weddings and girly stuff. She raised 3 boys and was focused on what made three boys happy. She said exactly what she thought, I never wanted to hurt any ones feelings. To be quite honest, my first encounter with
THE MO was scary.
Over the last 21 years I have come to love this lady enormously. Just after Milo and I got married, she and Gary moved to Idaho to be closer to her ailing sister. We are fortunate to see them at least once a year and sometimes more. She works as a camp cook and
EVERYTHING is homemade!
EVERYTHING! People come from miles away
JUST to taste some of THE MO's home cookin. I remember last time we visited, she would get up at 3:00 AM every day to get to camp to do ALL of the cooking for the day, so she could be home by noon to spend the rest of the day with us. One day she got delayed, because she was making
HOMEMADE hamburger buns to bring home for our lunch. Guys who graduated from high school with Milo, wives' still call her because their husband was requesting something that
THE MO made back in the day.
She raised three sons and
NEVER missed one of their activities. She literally walks into my kitchen when I have deemed it 'empty of any possible food creations' and takes a little of this and that and whips up something delicious. Just yesterday when I was making stuffed mushrooms and had some of the stuffing left over, I called to ask, what should I do with this extra stuffing. Without hesitation, she rambled off a bunch of options so that
NOTHING would go to waste. My newest request is that she start writing some of these recipes down, so that she can leave us a legacy. She adamantly disagrees. I will keep working on that one.
She has been there for me whenever I desperately needed her and I know to this day, one phone call and she would be on the first plane back to Iowa with no hesitation. She has a way of building confidence in kids that is remarkable. When she says she likes something you did or said, you just
KNOW that she is sincere in her praise.
Over the last 21 years, I have grown in confidence she has soften more to the girly side. When she comes for a visit we have found a balance between her cooking and me cooking. I was tickled in November on a Sunday at noon, she would call me while whoopin it up in Las Vegas so I could share in her fun, as I have done the same with her.
I couldn't interview her, as she would consider that ridiculous,
why would anyone give a 'crap'. And unfortunately because of the miles that separate us, pictures are sparse and I won't post the few out dated ones that I have. Your Welcome, MO. I need to get better at more pics when we are together. I do have a message into my brother-in-law, who she is visiting in AZ today to have him snap one and email it. Check in later for a possible pic of this
GREAT lady!
So to
THE MO today, thanks for being a grounding force in my life. Thank you for giving me an incredible man who is loving and builds confidence in those around him, as you laid the ground work years ago in him. Thank you for loving me unconditionally and for giving me the unwavering confidence that no matter what turn life takes, you would jump through whatever obstacles to come to my aid. Thank you for teaching me the importance of family and for being a role model in my life.
Happy Be-Lated Birthday!
I love you.
Jill